If there is one thing I have learnt in my 23 years of living, it is to limit the amount of favors I ask for. The smallest favor could be turned into the biggest matter in the world. Those you consider your friends and family can deal with you within the glimpse of an eye. They will be quick to turn on you for a favor. They will find every reason to suggest that what your asking for is beyond their means and make up the most ridiculous excuses. You sef will begin to wonder if what you're asking for help for is a rocket to reach Saturn.
Even though I use the term 'friend' loosely, a lot of people I associate with are my 'acquaintances'. We will go out, we will jolly, but they will still remain an acquaintance. A true friend is a gift from God. A lot of people love to see you beg, plead and ask for favors and assistance in this world. It butters them up to know that others have a certain need and requirement for their help and will use it to their advantage. I advise you all to always shine in whatever it is your heart tells you to do and follow your dreams. Try to keep pushing as far as you can before you open your mouth and ask one single human for a favor. At times, we think certain things are unattainable, when we are just to blind to see the unlocked door of opportunities staring at us and waiting for it's knob to be turned.
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